Husbands, love your wives [be affectionate and sympathetic with them] and do not be harsh or bitter or resentful toward them.
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
Husbands, love your wives and don’t be harsh with them.
Husbands, love your wives, and do not be bitter toward them.
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter towards them.